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How can you tell if you have truly Forgiven?

42 Days of Teresa – Day 33 When you wonder to yourself about where you may be on your road to forgiveness, how do you self assess?  For me, the litmus test I use is to take a quick look at something specifically related to your trauma. Take a few breaths. Pay attention to your […]

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My Father Friend requested me!

42 Days of Teresa – Day 32 Can you believe that?  My father, my abuser, casually sends a Facebook friend request to me. No message or context. Truly it happened months ago but I’m writing about it now.  I can say that it surprised me. Then, the strangest thing happened that surprised me even more. […]

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Dancing in the Dark

42 Days of Teresa – Day 31 I was reading about the healing energy that can come from embracing the shadows that we all have.  It occurred to me that we spend a lot of time trying to constantly connect with the “light” energy.  I realized that I have hard time with all the notions […]

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Self Sabotage

42 Days of Teresa – day 30 I have realized that I have been hiding.  As I am getting better, I am going through my task list and feeling a sense of procrastination when it comes to investing energy into my dreams.  Fear of success?  I don’t know.  I feel so full of life when […]

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Married to an Addict

42 Days of Teresa – day 23 If someone were to ask what it is like to live with an addict and wonder how to cope inside of the relationship, I’d say mostly this: I was married to an addict. It’s a classic tactic to end the fight with violence or threat of violence and […]

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Evolution of Relationships

42 Days of Teresa – day 16 Everyone knows what that “ugly cry” is.  Even if you haven’t had one yourself, you have probably seen one at some point in your life.  Several months ago, after a considerable amount of gin and dancing, I had a complete and total melt down that took place that started […]

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Act on your Passion

42 Days of Teresa – day 15 I just love this quote: “Your conviction is a luxury of those on the sidelines.” – Parcher (Beautiful Mind) I am often very intrigued by those who make spectacular statements of conviction only to reveal that they are often “too busy” to invest much more than words.  I […]

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Goddess Energy art

42 Days of Teresa – day 13 I saw this as part of a carving competition.  She is just so beautiful and I am glad I took the moment to snap this photo.

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