Posts Tagged child sexual abuse


Orgasms and Shame during abuse.

42 days of Teresa – day 10 ** Warning ** Some of this content is graphic. It may have trigger issues for some. Please read this only if you are in a good place emotionally. Opening up about my childhood sexual abuse has been a long and healing journey.  Once I got to the point […]

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Why Forgive an Abuser?

People ask me how I’m able to move forward after being abused for so many years.  Some people have actually expressed anger and frustration that I am no longer angry and silently wishing some horrible tragedy befall my abuser.  “They don’t deserve to be forgiven” or similar statements are made in a blurted out emotional […]

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Back at it

I have been so overwhelmed and grateful to each and every new reader and subscriber to this blog.  In recent months I have waded through one of the worst spells with depression in years.  I just disappeared inside myself.  I was not engaged in my day to day life.  I was in total task mode, […]

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Longterm Effects of Sexual Abuse

** Warning ** Some of this content is graphic. It may have trigger issues for some. Please read this story only if you are in a good place emotionally. The sad truth is that I had no idea what was happening to me when my father was molesting me.  I was too young and nothing […]

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No Fear, Just Purpose

** Warning ** Some of this content is graphic. It may have trigger issues for some. Please read this story if you are in a good place emotionally. I have had a lot to think about lately.  My recent posts have sparked something huge.  I realize that there is something that NO ONE is talking […]

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Remembering Abuse as a Child

** Warning ** Some of this content is graphic. It may have trigger issues for some. Please read this story if you are in a good place emotionally. Often times, throughout my years if child abuse, my father would be in his bedroom.  He would yell my name from his room and ask me to […]

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The fastest attack of Sexual Abuse

** Warning ** Some of this content is graphic. It may have trigger issues for some. Please read this story if you are in a good place emotionally. One night I was in my bedroom, by myself.  I’m guessing ten or eleven years old.  I think I was getting ready to go to bed for […]

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A new resource for Healing

For  a long time I have admired and appreciated the bravery and honesty of Faith Allen on Blooming Lotus.  Her story and her journey of healing is heartbreaking to amazingly inspirational.  The topics she writes on and the candid, open way in which she discusses them opened my eyes to just how necessary it is […]

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